Thursday, June 9, 2011

Summer Checklist

So, in order to organize my goals for this summer I've decided to make a checklist that contains items in three areas: Horse, Personal, and Random Funstuffs.
As I check items off the list, I will make posts related to them and explain if anything extraordinary happens to me.

Horse:

  1. Give Onyx a bath
  2. Canter Onyx bareback
  3. Survive a show (not place or do well, just survive)
  4. Work with Onyx and the trailer
  5. Trailer Onyx somewhere (show, out trail riding...)
  6. Trail ride in the back fields by my barn
  7. Gallop in the back fields
  8. Ride bareback and bridleless (just walking totally counts)
  9. Ride at least three horses that are not Onyx at least once
  10. Gain greater acceptance and have more people know me at my new barn
  11. Jump Onyx
  12. Ride double on Onyx
Personal:
  1. Get hit on by a college guy
  2. Kiss in the rain
  3. Take a trip with my friends to the beach
  4. Feel beautiful
  5. Look at colleges
  6. Have a skype date with my best friend and watch the Bachelorette
  7. Spend time with my best friend, who lives in another state
General Awesome Funstuffs:
  1. Go to Six Flags
  2. Jump out of a moving vehicle
  3. Get hit by a vehicle
  4. Have a mud fight
  5. Kyak
  6. Learn to drive the truck with the boat trailer attached
  7. Learn to launch the boat by myself
  8. Sit on a rooftop and watch fireworks
I will add more as I think of more, but here they are for starters!

Monday, June 6, 2011

My Motivation

So, I should be studying for my finals right now, but I have decided to share the reasoning behind why I wanted to work with Onyx and improve his life.

  1. I wanted to help him be happy again. He had been sitting in a tiny stall for about two years when I started to work with him and he looked miserable except for when I took him out to play with him or ride him and such.
  2. While at the barn in Illinois, a lot of owners and riders would approach me and make remarks about how they doubted Onyx and his abilities in every way. They would tell me things like; "He's dangerous." "He can't be trusted with people." "He's afraid of everything." "He's a menace." He's stupid." "I would never trust him." These words hurt me because I could see that Onyx was none of these things and in order to help him improve, all I would have to do was consistently work with him  and show him that people could be trusted. Which is exactly what I've been doing since September. In addition, I wanted to show all of those people that they were wrong and get them to admit that I am a half decent rider who can help horses and train them, despite my relatively young age of 16 and the fact that I haven't been riding for very long.
  3. The main reason that Onyx had stopped being used was that my trainer got bucked off of him years ago and broke her leg. This was not Onyx's fault: she dropped her reins on accident and he was spooked and started to buck, and she fell off. However, many naysayers use this incident to show that he is what they call "dangerous" or "menacing". These assumptions are extremely false. This occurrence led to my trainer and her family riding him less and less, which led to the sale of him to this other girl who neglected him.
  4. I wanted to prove myself. Use the skills I have learned throughout my short horses career to help Onyx and show that I am capable of training (or at least improving) a horse and make him usable and happy.
I am proud of the fact that I chose to work with Onyx because I fear that if I didn't, nobody would have and he would still be sitting in his stall. Or worse, dead.
Now, after our work and persistence, I can do many things that everyone from my old barn thought impossible. I am so proud of Onyx for his hard work and ability to improve. 


Sunday, June 5, 2011

The Beginning

As I was walking around at work today (I work at the boarding barn where my horse lives) I realized that I would really like the world, or at least a few people, to know the back story of my horse Onyx and I. So, here it goes:

I started riding horses in the summer of 2006 at Kingsway farm in Winfield, Illinois. This was just for fun because I had been bugging my mom about it for so long. After a while taking lessons from one woman, I switched my lesson to ride with a friend. And the rest, as they say, is history. After the switch, I started "playing with" my trainer's horse Onyx. At the time, I didn't know what I was doing with horses because I had minimal experience, so I let my best friend Amanda do all of the work and I would just watch him run around in his pasture. After a while, I started to become a better rider and I was riding more horses and difficult horses. I leased a horse named Jetta from about the summer of 2008 to the summer of 2010 and I stopped riding him because he would get hurt frequently and I was paying the owners for a horse that I couldn't ride. During the summer of 2010, I went on a month long volunteer trip to California and I didn't get to ride much. When I got home, Jetta was hurt again and I was very upset and wanted to start riding other horses.

During the time when I was riding other horses, my trainer sold Onyx to another girl because she felt that the new owner would work with him more often than she had. This was a horrible mistake. The new owner neglected him for two years. She didn't ride him or come to the barn to see him or anything like that. And he just sat there. This gorgeous animal that had once loved and trusted people was just sitting away in a stall.

When I came home from California to find my normal mount hurt, I suddenly became very brave and told my trainer that I wanted to ride Onyx in my next lesson. She agreed. Before I got on him, I spent about a half an hour lunging him (basically running him around in circles to tire him out) to tire him out and get some of his energy released. After the first ride, I committed myself to helping this horse become the best that he could possibly be, and he has improved significantly since then.

When we started, Onyx would:

  • Throw his head
  • Hold his head way up in the air
  • Buck and rear and kick and bolt around when lunging
  • He was hard to get into the canter (a faster gate)
  • He would not stay in the canter for very long
  • Not respond to cues
  • Be easily spooked and startled
  • Not listen
  • He had never had a bath before (in his entire life)
  • He was also pretty fat and not very healthy
If you aren't a horse person, some of these things may not seem like a big deal to you. But trust me, they are. Especially when compared to the improvements that Onyx has made since he has come to live with me in Wisconsin in December.

Now, Onnie is a perfect gentleman and a lot of people at my new barn love him. His attitude has significantly improved and he absolutely loves working and being ridden. Now, Onyx:
  • Has a gorgeous headset
  • Has a nice little western jog and lope
  • Can canter easily both directions
  • Lunges in his little western jog and lope
  • Responds very well to cues
  • Can be ridden without lunging beforehand
  • Can be ridden bareback (and cantered!)
  • I can slide off of his butt without feeling like I am in danger
  • Can trail ride with no problem
  • Does not spook easily
  • Has had a bath

I would love to elaborate on all of his improvements and tell how I have gotten him to trust me so completely, but that's what the rest of this blog is for! I'll post other funny stories about my life in general and hope it provides y'all with some amusement. See you later :)